Listen to the words in your head....

This morning I woke up with a song stuck in my head.   It’s a country song, and oddly enough I can’t even remember the last time I listened to country music other than a song here and there on my sons IPOD.  I think the song is sung by Rascal Flats but could be wrong.  Anyways, the part I have stuck in my head is “I will stand by you, I will help you through, when you’ve done all you can do……”

Now, the reason this gave meaning to my morning is a couple of things.   For one, I was supposed to pull an all-nighter studying, but just was too pooped out to stay up past 11:00pm.   The other is that I am supposed to take the state exam for my insurance license on Wed. and I feel unprepared due to my lack of being able to study all weekend due to things beyond my control……my daughters High School Graduation, my sons 8^th grade graduation…..things that I wouldn’t miss for the world.   I also got up this morning looking around my house, at the unwept floor, the sink full of dishes, the bag of groceries yet to be put away…and all I can think of is how I am down to the wire and I am falling short in every area!  With God’s grace I’ve made it this far and I cannot afford to fail the exam on Wed.!!!

So, the words came to me as I was getting my computer and everything set up to start studying: “Seek me first, and then all will fall into place”.  Now these words hit me like a ton of bricks; because the first thing and last thing I normally do in the day is read the bible and pray, yet for a few days I haven’t done that I’ve been studying but it’s been the wrong book.

With that being said I opened my bible to a place I had left off at last week in Judges finishing the life of Samson.  I’m sure most have heard of Samson in the bible, but probably have never actually “studied” his life.  At least I had never bothered to do so.  So I read the last chapters which led to the death of Samson.  Now I’m not going to go into detail because there is a lot more time I need to spend studying on this exactly before I go preaching to anyone, but here is what I will say.  Since before Samson’s conception, he was destined to be a leader and have supernatural strength.  An Angel appeared to his parents before his conception and told them this, and gave them a set of things they should and should not do to this boy, as he is a born servant to the Lord.   One of those things was to never shave/cut his hair.  Long story….skipped to the end, after several mighty defeats Samson had over the Philistines, they finally were able to learn the secret to his godly strength and cut off his hair in his sleep.  They then attacked him, gouged out his eyes, and put him in prison.  Later, after being imprisoned the Philistines brought Samson out so that they could all see him in his weak state for their entertainment.  When the guards brought Samson out he asked to be led to the pillars that support the temple so that he could use them to lean on, and the guard did as he was asked.   While Samson stood there with one hand on each pillar he prayed to God and asked him to please give him his strength back one more time so that he may seek final revenge on these Philistines for gouging out his eyes.  The Lord granted his prayer, and Samson with the strength of his two arms pulled down the entire temple, and it came crashing down upon him, but in doing so killed the Philistines and their rulers.  So in his death he killed more than he ever did in his life.  

Now, I’m not going to even to begin to explain something I don’t fully understand, but what I am going to do is tell you why this story affected me so greatly this morning.   As I said I woke up feeling weak, like I was being held back, like things were impossible for me to do, that circumstances beyond my control were causing me to fall short, that I was confused and blinded on what I should be doing.

Our Lord is wonderful, he is loving when we don’t know we need it, he is there for us when we don’t think we need it, and when we are lost in the darkness he is our light!  This morning I woke up lost in the darkness, the energy that usually comes in the morning for me was gone, and I was confused, the enemy had that quickly swept into my life and made me doubt myself and my purpose…but wait what words did I have in my head this morning? 

“I will stand by you, I will help you through, when you’ve done all you can do…” and then “Seek me first, and all else will fall into place.”

You see, God already knew what the enemy was trying to do to me today, and just like a mother bear protects her cub, he put those words in my head to take the focus away from any problem and put them directly onto him, which is where they should be.  

So as you go on with your day today first remember that all things are possible through he that strengthens me.  So put your trust in the Lord and rest assured that today will be a great day of enjoyment, success, prosperity, and deliverance!  FOR WE SERVE AN AWESOME GOD!!

What happened to teaching our children to vote?

Today I could go in a lot of different directions but I woke up with something on my heart so I'm going to try to stick to that.....

However, I will first say this:  I try to not get into politics with people and I consider myself very uneducated in this area really, so for what I'm going to say you can take with a grain of salt if you even care to read.   My son and I just got done watching the Presidents Town Hall Meeting with CBS.   Griffen just turned 3, when he got up it was just starting, and I made a big deal of it (rather than having his usual PBS cartoons to watch) I said "Today is special, we get to watch our President of The United States of America, where we live."   (I've taught him about this before, and both Brett and I have taught him the pledge of allegiance, etc.)  So he jumped up and down, and sat and watched the whole thing, despite having a very bored look on his face it was as if he some how knew this was something important and he should be listening.   When it went to commercial he would play with his truck and then when it came back he would yell & jump, clap and say "Mommy he's back on, its back on, our President!" 

Now I'm not going to tell you my political stance or which party I'm on.........but I'm going to say a few things:
1.)   I think it is really sad that it has become publicly acceptable to bad mouth, have bumper stickers and T-shirts poking fun, or plain being disrespectful to the man in the highest position in our country.  Whom "We" as a nation voted for.  Especially, when most of these people probably didn't even bother to vote at all, yet they feel the need to post their derogatory opinion on the back of their mini-van for everyone to read.  Then we wonder why our children disrespect their teachers, parents, and other adults in authority????   Yet, these are the children riding in the mini-van with the bumper sticker on it, where their own parents are publicly announcing that they "disrespect our President of the United States????"  This angers me to no end, and seems to be a completely assanign thing to do!

2.)  What happened to teaching our children to vote?  Or better yet, the importance of voting?  When I was a child I attended a school that rarely had over 90 students.   Yet every voting season they would give us age appropriate info. on the candidates, the different offices, then they would bus us up to the Grange hall where we would go into the voting booths and physically vote.   Now, in this day and age of mail-in ballets, etc. I know this is a little harder, but yet with budget cuts we can barely afford as a school district to "bus" them to school and back home, let alone on a field trip.  Yet, we are in the midst of the largest recession since "The Great Depression", we will know doubt read about this in text books some day.   Many baby-boomers are concerned that they will not have any social security or medicare to depend on when they reach age (I just don't plan on it at all for my generation), yet we are not teaching our children the importance to "vote"?  I've read many publications on our children and the problem of "Entitlement", so many parents living beyond their means and going into debt just to make sure little Johnny gets everything they didn't have as a child, despite whether little Johnny even wants it!  Anything to make sure they are keeping up with the Jones' next door.   With problems like these, it should seem to be even more important to teach our children on the value of living in a  "Free Country" (now you can argue that if you want, but hopefully you get my point by now).   Just by living in America we are already richer than 93% of the rest of the world!  Yet, do we tell our children that?  Are they taught that at school?  No, they throw a fit everytime they walk into walmart with their parents and aren't allowed to buy the toy they spotted (that was probably made in China no less).  We already are living in a population where half of us don't bother to take the TIME to EDUCATE OURSELVES to vote and we don't even have to leave our home!!! (I've been guilty myself)   So even if for some reason our childrens generation (the ones paying for our social security, by the way) bother to vote, they are so uneducated, they are unlikely to spend the time reading and educating themselves on whom to actually vote for.........which means the media will now have total control of our country (if you don't already argue that they do).   Our childrens generation are technologically savy, if they aren't watching commercials on TV, they will see ads on the side of their email, or on the radio, everytime they log-in to their computer, trust me, the media, the politicians will find a way.   So they will be voting, based off a quick blurb, and which candidate has the best hair style, or is the most attractive, just as we would pick someone to dance with at the bar, or the one car salesman that sworms you, or the realtor in the magazine.    Seriously?   We cannot as parents sit back and think that someone else is going to teach our children the importance of this!

Ok, I'm going to split this blog up into two because I seem to be a little more verbal on this subject than I thought (Go figure!)

So I'm adding one more....
3.)  I mentioned that we have taught our 3yr. old the "Pledge of Allegiance".   When I was in elementary school we started our day by singing "Good Morning" to our teacher (ie. paying respect), we then faced the flag (which was in every classroom) and said the "Pledge of Allegiance", followed my singing "My Country Tis of Thee"........so why don't they do that anymore?   I don't have the answer, but could it be that in the Pledge of Allegiance it says the words "under God" which might offend some students.   Yet, we are talking about what our country was built on!!  People who believed in God, people who believed that God was the way and the only way that we could be so blessed to live in a FREE country!  Many others in our world are not so lucky.   When did this change?   When did the need to be so removed from the creator of our world happen to people?  I mentioned how we started the day when I was in school (not that long ago I'm 31).....yet I remember specifically that we had an aetheist and two Jehovah's Witnesses in our class.   Yet, they started class the same way, the Jehovah's Witness got to go home early when we celebrated holidays, such as Christmas (You know the Birth of Jesus, the son of God)........we didn't call them "Harvest Days", "Winter Celebration" or "Spring Concerts".......we actually sang real Christmas Carols, you remember the ones that mentioned "God".  Now, I think that most Christians prefer their children not dress as devil, or scary monsterish characters for Halloween, yet even though asked not to I see children dressed like this every year.  I also see Angels, they haven't banned that one, maybe they just disregard and call them "fairy's"??? Who knows. 

I'm getting a little off track but I feel very passionate about it.   Its hard for me to believe our schools are "public" when we pay taxes to support them, and then that doesn't even ensure us that our children will get a good education.   Every year our parent club is responsible for raising thousand of dollars (additionally from parents and the community) just so our children can have PE., Art, and go on Field Trips.......in addition any special programs are usually funded by grants that our wonderful giving teachers and principals take their own time to write and apply for, yet still most are not funded by our government.   So I consider my children's public school a "Public/Private School"  if it were not for the Parents and Volunteers our children's education would be severely less than acceptable........yet, we are raising the future leaders of our "FREE" Country!?!?!?!?!

OK, I'm stepping off my soap box.  I'm sure I ruffled some feathers, but hey you can't please everybody.  
Just notice I'm not telling you whether I like or dislike our President, I'm not telling you which party I choose to side with or how or if I even vote.   I'm simply stating some very obvious concerns of mine, that should be obvious to all parents, and I guess even more concerning to the people in my generation who choose not to have children (at least I know I have influence over a handful of people...LOL)......with that being said, I don't tell my children my opinion either other than I do not allow any disrespectful comments to be made to any adult let alone the President of our country, and I'm sure they've heard be gripe when I've seen the bumper stickers.  :)   I encourage my children to share their opinion (I love a healthy debate), and I make sure that their opinion is "THEIR" opinion.....not because they saw a commercial on TV, or heard one on the radio.  Not because their teacher shared only their opinion with them, or because they saw a lot of signs all over town, or because it's cool to be different, or the same.....whichever age group their in!    I want them to do their own research and feel proud of their opinion, and ready for the debate when the questions are asked.

So I just ask you who have children.....think about what you do and say in front of them.   None of us are perfect and we are all guilty of something in the sorts I've been talking about.  Hopefully, I'm just making you more aware.   Take some time to talk about voting & our country, and the differences in other countries.   Just know that we cannot sit back and depend on an under-funded education system to raise our children!  Values & Ethics are taught at home. 

Remember that you are the most influential person in your children's lives, and that is a large load to carry at times.......but you are just the person for the job!!  I know it!

Have a good day!  Sorry for talking Politics  ;)